2nd grade · Social Studies · Unit 3 of 14
Talking and Deciding Together
Listening, giving reasons and voting fairly
What your child practices
Democratic habits start small: listening to every idea, waiting for a turn, giving reasons, disagreeing kindly and voting fairly. These help children take part in class and community decisions.
New York State Learning Standards learning standard: 2.3a; 2.3c · fairness, sharing ideas and voting to make decisions together
How we explain it
Children can open this short lesson before they practice.
- Listen to every idea and give reasons for yours.
- Invite quiet people to share.
- A fair way to decide is to vote. The idea with the most votes wins.
Example: Your class must pick a game. Everyone has a different idea. What is fair? First, hear everyone's idea. Then let everyone vote. Answer: listen, then vote
Talking and Deciding Together in New York
In the New York State Learning Standards, this is unit 3 of 14 in 2nd grade Social Studies, after Climate & Ways of Life and before Working Together Fairly.
Gradelings describes a child's practice on this unit as Beginning, Approaching, Meeting or Exceeding (Four practice steps). That reflects practice, not a report-card mark: the teacher decides the mark.
Sample questions
A taste of this unit. In the app, questions change every time and get easier or harder to match your child.
Question 1
When it is your turn to share, what is a good thing to do?
- whisper so no one hears
- say your idea clearly and give a reason
- say nothing
say your idea clearly and give a reason
Hint: Reasons help others understand your idea.
Question 2
Put the steps for a class vote in order.
- 🗳️Vote
- 💬Share ideas
- 📣Say the result
- 🔢Count the votes
Share ideas → Vote → Count the votes → Say the result
Hint: First we share ideas, then we vote, then we count, and last we say the result.
Question 3
Another student shares a different idea from yours. What is a polite thing to say?
- “You can't say that.”
- “Thanks for sharing. I think differently.”
- “That is dumb.”
“Thanks for sharing. I think differently.”
Hint: You can disagree and still be respectful.
Question 4
Everyone in a group should have a chance to…
- speak and be heard
- leave quietly
- only listen
speak and be heard
Hint: Democracy means everyone has a say.
Question 5
Does it help a group decide well? Tap an item, then tap its basket.
Sort into: 👍 helps · 🚫 does not help
- 📢shouting over others
- 💬giving a reason for your idea
- 😝making fun of an idea
- ✋waiting for your turn
- 🙉refusing to listen
- 👂listening to every idea
👍 helps: giving a reason for your idea, waiting for your turn, listening to every idea · 🚫 does not help: shouting over others, making fun of an idea, refusing to listen
Hint: Good group members listen, wait their turn, give reasons and respect different ideas.
Question 6
When you disagree, which is better?
- explain your view calmly
- yell
- walk out
explain your view calmly
Hint: Calm words help a group solve problems.