Kindergarten · Social Studies · Unit 4 of 12
Fair & Kind
Speak up and be kind
What your child practices
Noticing fair and unfair choices, using kind words, standing up for ourselves and others, and getting a grown-up to help.
New York State Learning Standards learning standard: K.4b; K.5a · being a responsible member of the class and following rules that keep everyone safe
How we explain it
Children can open this short lesson before they practice.
- Fair means everyone gets a turn.
- Kind means helping and using nice words.
- If something is not okay, say so in a calm voice.
Example: Two kids want the same swing. What is fair? Both kids want a turn. Fair means each one gets a turn. Answer: take turns
Fair & Kind in New York
In the New York State Learning Standards, this is unit 4 of 12 in Kindergarten Social Studies, after Families and before My Jobs, Rules & Leaders.
Gradelings describes a child's practice on this unit as Beginning, Approaching, Meeting or Exceeding (Four practice steps). That reflects practice, not a report-card mark: the teacher decides the mark.
Sample questions
A taste of this unit. In the app, questions change every time and get easier or harder to match your child.
Question 1
You are kind to a classmate. How might they feel?
- 😞left out
- 😊happy
- 😢sad
😊 happy
Hint: Kindness helps people feel safe and happy.
Question 2
Is it fair if only some kids get to use the swings?
- No
- Yes
- It depends on their hair
No
Hint: Fair means everyone gets a chance.
Question 3
A friend is crying. What can you do?
😢- Walk away
- Ask, “Are you okay?”
- Laugh
Ask, “Are you okay?”
Hint: Showing care helps a friend feel better.
Question 4
One child gets many more stickers than everyone else. Is it fair?
- Only if you are tall
- Yes, it is fair
- No, it is not fair
No, it is not fair
Hint: Fair means everyone gets the same chance.
Question 5
Someone is teasing a child about their lunch. What can you say?
- Nothing, and join in
- Please stop. Everyone eats different foods.
- Ha ha!
Please stop. Everyone eats different foods.
Hint: Speaking up kindly can stop teasing.
Question 6
Someone takes your pencil. What can you say?
- Nothing, ever
- Hit them
- Please give it back. It is mine.
Please give it back. It is mine.
Hint: We can stand up for ourselves with calm, strong words.