3rd grade · English Language Arts · Unit 17 of 21
Listening & Talking Together
Key ideas, taking turns, thoughtful questions and sharing opinions.
What your child practices
Practices listening for key ideas, using non-verbal cues and turn taking, asking thoughtful questions, giving evidence, and sharing thoughts and preferences in a group.
New York State Learning Standards learning standard: 3SL1; 3SL2; 3SL3 · listening for key ideas, taking turns and asking questions
How we explain it
Children can open this short lesson before they practice.
- In a group, one person speaks while the others listen.
- Ask questions to understand better, after the speaker finishes.
- Give evidence: say where your idea comes from, like “The book says…”
Example: Which answer gives evidence: “I think owls are cool.” or “The book says owls hunt at night.”? Evidence points to where the idea came from. The second one names the book. Answer: “The book says owls hunt at night.”
Listening & Talking Together in New York
In the New York State Learning Standards, this is unit 17 of 21 in 3rd grade English Language Arts, after Make Writing Better and before Posters, Slides & Media.
Gradelings describes a child's practice on this unit as Beginning, Approaching, Meeting or Exceeding (Four practice steps). That reflects practice, not a report-card mark: the teacher decides the mark.
Sample questions
A taste of this unit. In the app, questions change every time and get easier or harder to match your child.
Question 1
A partner shares an opinion different from yours. A kind reply is…
- “Nobody cares.”
- “Thanks for telling me. Here is what I think.”
- “You are wrong.”
“Thanks for telling me. Here is what I think.”
Hint: You can disagree politely.
Question 2
Saying “I felt happy when…” is a way to share…
- a map
- your feelings
- a recipe
your feelings
Hint: You can talk about thoughts and feelings.
Question 3
Taking turns in a group talk means…
- everyone talks at once
- nobody ever talks
- one person speaks while others listen
one person speaks while others listen
Hint: Turn taking makes talks fair.
Question 4
Which helps you remember key ideas while listening?
- Jot a word or a quick picture
- Talk to a friend
- Look out the window
Jot a word or a quick picture
Hint: Notes help you hold on to key ideas.
Question 5
Saying “I prefer cats because…” shares a…
- fact that never changes
- rule
- preference
preference
Hint: A preference is what you like best.
Question 6
Which question would help you think deeper about a story?
- Is the book heavy?
- What might happen next, and why?
- How many pages are blue?
What might happen next, and why?
Hint: Deep questions need thinking and evidence.