4th grade · English Language Arts · Unit 16 of 20
Listening & Talking Together
Good listeners, good questions, kind conversations
What your child practices
Practices listening for key ideas, taking turns, asking open-ended questions, giving reasons and using rich words and linking words in conversation.
New York State Learning Standards learning standard: 4SL1; 4SL3 · taking turns, asking good questions and giving reasons in a discussion
How we explain it
Children can open this short lesson before they practice.
- Wait for a pause, then add your idea.
- Ask open questions like “What makes you say that?” to learn more.
- If you disagree, be kind and give a reason: “I see it differently, because…”
Example: Which question helps you learn more about a speaker’s idea: “Is that right?” or “What makes you say that?” A yes-or-no question gives a short answer. An open question invites them to explain. Answer: What makes you say that?
Listening & Talking Together in New York
In the New York State Learning Standards, this is unit 16 of 20 in 4th grade English Language Arts, after Listen, Speak & Read Aloud and before Revise & Polish.
Gradelings describes a child's practice on this unit as Beginning, Approaching, Meeting or Exceeding (Four practice steps). That reflects practice, not a report-card mark: the teacher decides the mark.
Sample questions
A taste of this unit. In the app, questions change every time and get easier or harder to match your child.
Question 1
Which shows that you are NOT listening?
- Fidgeting and talking to someone else
- Nodding along
- Asking a question about the topic
Fidgeting and talking to someone else
Hint: Listening takes focus.
Question 2
Which is a richer word than "big" for a huge mountain?
- tiny
- enormous
- small
enormous
Hint: Rich words give a clearer picture.
Question 3
Which is a polite way to join a conversation?
- Wait for a pause, then add your idea
- Interrupt loudly
- Turn your back
Wait for a pause, then add your idea
Hint: Wait for the right moment.
Question 4
Which word best completes it? "We wore mitts ___ it was very cold."
- so that
- but
- because
because
Hint: Because gives the reason.
Question 5
Which shows you are listening to a speaker?
- Talking to a friend
- Looking at the speaker and nodding
- Looking out the window
Looking at the speaker and nodding
Hint: Eyes, face and body show listening.
Question 6
During a group discussion, you disagree with a point. What should you do?
- Stay silent and be upset
- Say it politely and explain why
- Roll your eyes
Say it politely and explain why
Hint: Respectful talk helps everyone.